Wow @Dannydan, to begin I really didn’t mean to cause any upset for you. When I was typing a reply to @Jay2023 the topic of sacredness of sex reminded me of my friends situation. I really hope you are not being hard on yourself or self shaming.

First of all like you said you didn’t use any of those terms, you made it clear there was no verbal volley or physical abuse in your relationship and you took full accountability for any immaturity and mistake by meeting her to make amends. You didn’t rely on her soft heart to automatically forgive you, your conscience went deeper than that. ‘B’ forgave you and chose you. She knows you better than any of us! So please don’t be upset. I’m glad your expressing your gratitude and I’m pretty certain she is grateful for the work you did do on yourself because you proved your own potential.

Thank you for the comprehensive reply. I’m actually going to copy and paste what you wrote and send it to her. So she knows good men like you exist. Also no he didn’t make any amends or any apcknowledgement in person. Was just after sex and conquering the challenge, she is well rid. She is hurt but moving on.

@Jay2023 Everything okay with you? Are you just riding the wave of change and happier or has there been a dip? Here for you and concerned so do drop in.