Dear Test41:

“Am I being lazy here or is she right?”- You are not being lazy, and she is wrong.

Covid took your wife’s health away from her (hopefully she will recover soon), it took your job away from you, and it separate your toddler from his (or her) parents. Next, your wife is taking away your peace-of mind and ability to concentrate, by harassing and pestering you.

Instead of your wife uniting with you in these difficult times, being one of a a team of two, working for the common cause, which is your family of three, she is hurting the family.

Did she pester you and has she been a demanding wife before Covid?

anita