Dear Kate:

I am glad you posted at a time when you struggle.

“My boyfriend is a great guy. He cares for me and loves me. But sometimes, I just feel a disconnect. I am not sure where is the issue and how do I deal with it”-

– reads like the issue is anxiety. The term anxious attachment style, is explained by psychology today this way: “The anxious attachment style is always concerned about the stability or security of the relationship. People with this attachment style tend to agonize over the meaning of words or actions by a partner. They read negatives into otherwise neutral or positive interactions. They also tend to crave constant reassurance that the relationship is secure, and the affection and love are still present”- does this quote fit you in regard to your current relationship and the previous ones?

anita

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