Thanks for being undertanding @TeaK…

I’m trying to play it cool and all, but I won’t lie, it is kind of hard.

I accept they’re sleeping together, I accept they’re going out on dates, and there’s nothing I can nor will do about it, because at the end of the day, it’s her choice whether she wants to leave him or not.

I’m actually half-expecting they’ll stick together, and she’ll probably tell me to back off – which I will.

The reason I think this is because: 1) He chose to come despite her telling him she’s “met someone”; 2) (Not sure if he knows or is suspicious of) We’ve slept together many times and gone on dates; 3) Based on 1 and 2 he clearly wants to make it work.

So all I can do, is wait until he goes back and see what she has to say about it.  If she sends me a text, or tells me verbally, that she wants to stop – we’ll stop.

If she sends me a text saying ‘Hey, how are you?’ or anything along those lines, I will ask her to meet up and continue what we’re doing.

I’ve told her I’m only into something casual, though, so she must know it.

Other than all that, there’s nothing else I can do.