Dear Ashmitha:

My answer to “Should I just end it?” is: Yes, because I believe, and you seem to agree, that he is dishonest with you, a wolf in sheep clothing.

I don’t think  (although I can’t be 100% sure) that he has any real intention to marry you because he did not introduce you to any of his family or friends, and he did not share about you on social media, and because for all practical purposes, the relationship has been casual and he hasn’t yet invested anything of substance in you: not his time, not his money, not public acknowledgement.. nothing!

But even if he had the intention to marry you, it is not a good idea for a sheep (an honest woman such as yourself) to marry a wolf!

anita