Dear Luna:

You are welcome. No need to apologize- whenever you post is okay with me. As long as you are not living with him, as long as you are continuing a long-distance relationship with a man you don’t really like and to whom you are not attracted- is not that painful. But if you move to where he lives, and find yourself having a physical relationship with .. a man you don’t really like and to whom you are not attracted- that can be very painful. I hope it doesn’t come to that.

anita