Dear raphy29:

“I have a friend who I’ve known for 15 years, she has always been a good friend on paper, supportive, generous and kind. T… I don’t know whether I need to end the friendship?”-

– Is it that your friend sends you the message that when she is supportive of you, she is doing so from a position of being superior to you, looking down at you as a lesser person/ an inferior/ a charity case that she is willing to help out of the gracious kindness of her heart?

(I will be back to the computer in about 12 hours from now)

anita