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But I would add, if I meet her expectations that was missing before and I changed in a good way for her and in good path (the objective is also of course not to be perfect), how would you measure my chances of success for returning together ? I still don’t know until I see her how her condition affects her. It will be also there I will feel she needs time.

But I also imagine her decision was also to not give her an additional pressure to her state and that she doesn’t have to expect anything anymore. She finds it easier to free herself from any thinking on the future,  to not add additional pressure to those she already has from her problems..It’s also possible that by waiting my changes she mourned the relationship and considers conditions were not enough comforting and couldn’t wait. As she said, she couldn’t wait anymore.

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