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Hello anita
Her visit is not for now. Her mother’s birthday is on august 24th. But I don’t know when she will go. It’s very important important for her she is already talking about it. She didn’t see her for 3 years.
But I think it’s good she share it and answer very fast, right ? For her, her family is extremely important. She repeately told me she misses her. I am happy she shared that with me. It will be her jubilee (50 Years). She lives in another region and it’s very difficult to go. She will also she her father and her sister.
I really don’t know how long she plan to be there. She will probably take some vacation. It will be for one week at least.
I didn’t want to wait too long to come. Because longer it it.
But since her mother’s birthday in 24th and my plan to see her was around 15th, I don’t know when she will go I need to know.
But what did you mean ”the part before” ?
It’s very important for her and I believe it counts she receive one supportive word when she will be.
I also know her mother and I think important and caring to not forget this date. And one funny thing is her birthday is same day as independence day of Ukraine !
Yes I will consider coming. It will be difficult because it will a lot of work. But we will have to find a time to speak.
She won’t be able answer straight away. Her answer or reconsideration will depends on what she sees, time she spends with me. And redevelop feelings after one year and a half. Because you requoted bolded is the consequence of what she were expecting/hoping.
I would like to show you in the next post some elements I prepared . I won’t tell everything but some ideas. Speaking from past, my mistakes etc. to present (what I am now) until futur (what I plan, objectives, fear..). And it could naturally move to OUR future.
I didn’t mentioned that I sent her a heartful letter where I told everything I had in my heart and what I regret.
I think it touched her because it’s from that moment more or less that we communicated everyday and rebuilt step by step complicity.
I hope to do the same in real which will be more meaningful and emotional I imagine. I just hope she will give me time for that.