Hi Murtaza,

And why only anita that i didn’t reject? Because she understood, she had similar experience herself, she accepted, liked me, never projected nor judged, if its a me problem, i wouldn’t find anyone that will agree with me, especially someone that we both know that is intelligent.

anita attended therapy, she knows the power of healing. If she had a similar experience as you, perhaps a similar kind of trauma, and she got better with the help of therapy, then why are you insisting that therapy isn’t for you, and that you don’t need it?

tell me, if i was super nice, super polite, but had the same beliefs and lifestyle, would you like me?

It would be nicer to communicate with you if were polite. But not if you faked politeness, but if you would see that I don’t think I am superior, but that I was sincerely trying to help you. Even if you think this help isn’t applicable to you, you could have told me (or you could have thought for yourself) – thank you, but this isn’t working for me. That would feel much better than telling me that I am brainwashed, that I think you are a loser and all the other stuff. Which is absolutely not true, because I don’t think that I am superior and I don’t think that you are a loser.

So you are projecting stuff on me, and then judging me and condemning me for things I never said or did. Not the best way to keep communicating with people.