Dear @TeaK,

You are right I asked him that I do not want to be in touch with him and it has been three months now. I did not doubt my decision but I did think he might reach out but he never did. Even when I told him I want to stop communication he told me about how one of his exes also stopped communication with him. I felt annoyed as to why is that important at this time. Plus that story was over a long time ago. They were friends after that and hanging out every time he’d go back home. I met her too. Why was she cutting contact now? He was like I think it’s not fair to do that to people but if there is a wound he would be respectful about it. Anyway, it was not my business anymore. I told him I am sorry you feel sad but I need to focus on myself. I think you have moved on and I need to do that too.

The only reason I started this thread was that I started checking his FB(he never posts anything) but I wanted to get some information about him since he said he is happy. I felt sad about this behaviour of mine and thought it might be better if I sought some help. You and @anita have been quite helpful and kind.

I would come back on in case I struggle again.

I hope you are doing well and taking care of yourself too. Hugs!

Thanks a ton,

Akansha