Dear natalee:

Maybe, just maybe  the reason you flirted with the old crush and got interested in the new guy while still in love with Jessi – is because you badly need attention from guys, because you grew up not getting enough attention at home (your mother  being too busy raising her kids by herself)?

I am asking (and again, you don’t have to answer) because understanding yourself better will surely put you in a better position to make better choices in life, including in regard to relationships with guys.

anita