Dear natalee:

It will help you a great deal to get over your ex if you knew that he is over you. Problem is, he walks by and you imagine that he looks sad and that maybe he wants you back (and maybe he does, I don’t know). Your friends maybe suggest that, and your hopes keep going up. You then have his pictures by your bed (if I remember correctly) and you keep imagining being back with him.. all that makes it impossible to get over him.

If only you could have a long conversation or two with him, in which you can figure out: does he want you back OR not. If he doesn’t, case closed, right?

* Your choice in regard to getting back with him should not be a matter of his choice alone, but a matter of your choice as well. It is possible for you to change your mind about him for whatever reason. (Often a girl is in love with a boy and sees him as Mr. Wonderful.. but later, when able to see him better, he doesn’t seem so wonderful anymore)

* Also, you have a great need for attention from guys, like I suggested earlier and you agreed. This excessive need for attention stands in the way of you making good decisions for yourself in regard to guys.

anita