Hi Vikram

I don’t need her to change – I accept her as she is.  I love her exactly as she is.  There are things that she could change that would make things better, but my love for her is not conditional on that.

I will keep trying until my last breath or until she cuts the knot, but it’s so difficult to communicate with her any more.  We are now living apart and she has made it harder and harder for me to see any light at the end of the tunnel.

She doesn’t want to try for this and that’s hard to accept after nearly three decades.