I agree with Victoria – virginity is just a social construct and what you make of it.

So let’s drop the “V” word for a second and talk about sex in general. What does sex mean to you? Or more importantly, what do you want it to mean? You can decide.

Is sex something two people do for fun because it feels good, is it an expression of affection and a sign of intimacy, or all of the above? There’s no right or wrong answer here. You just have to choose what you want sex to represent in your life.

Personally, I could have lots of sex with lots of women, have no regrets about it, and form no emotional attachments. However, I choose not to. I choose sex to represent a new level of intimacy in a relationship and I don’t pursue sex outside the pursuit of monogamous relationship.

The choice is yours. It’s a personal choice that you don’t need to share with anyone else and no one should judge you for your choice.

Continue to talk it out and make the choice with your heart, your head, and your gut all in agreement.