Dear Lin,

He suffers from depression but I don’t know if this might be the reason why he is being so distant

Like anita said, his lack of affection can be caused by his own mental health issues, and might have nothing to do with you.

When he met me I was the bubbly, confident, independent and social Lin. … I also told him recently that I was insecure about the size of my breast and I feel he doesn’t like that I don’t feel sexy with them.

How have you felt about the size of your breasts before you met him? Were you confident about it? Do you think you might be seeking his reassurance that your breasts are fine, and when he doesn’t give it to you, you get insecure?