Hi Anita and Teak,

Apologies in the delay in getting back to you, it’s been a super busy 6 weeks after moving into my new home. Lots of family and practical matters to attend to. But I have taken a dip in the dating seas and although I am not seriously dating anyone, I am talking to some interesting people and I am enjoying it, whilst also enjoying my free time, time with family and friends etc.

Anita – I tried Match.com but didn’t find it very easy to use, where I am based in the UK, the majority of people are using apps such as Hinge, Tiner and Bumble, and I have had a couple of dates through these platforms, some really interesting people and am talking to some more, but I am definitely not trying to rush things. I am definitely smiling in my pictures, which show me in some of my hobby settings, running, music etc. Your advice on what to include in the bio is very helpful, so thank you. I am being honest about what I can bring to a relationship and what I am looking for.

Teak – The meetup groups were fun, and I actually have made a couple of new friends, which apart from dating, is something I was looking to do. I am happy to just do things I wouldn’t normally do and to experience new things with new minds 🙂

All in all, things are going well. My dad has his ups and downs health-wise, which can sometimes make my mood difficult, but I am trying to stay pragmatic about it. Also, living alone has been quite the adjustment, I do enjoy it often, but sometimes it can be lonely. So going to the gym and seeing friends regularly has been very helpful. Though sometimes I find I don’t want to pursue hobbies etc in the evening, but also I struggle to relax. Maybe this is just the adjusting phase of my life.

I hope you are both well and the weather hasn’t gotten too cold these days? The leaves are turning orange and falling here in the UK.

All the best to you both,

D