Dear Peace:

CONGRATULATIONS for getting married!!!

I think that the first time you shared about your now husband was on July 8 this year. You shared that you’ve been dating him since May 2021. Part of what you wrote on that day was (I am correcting typos and grammar):

“We just hold each other’s hand when we go out …I don’t invite him to my place nor does he… which I’m liking … He is an introvert, and it took him almost more than one month to hold my hand. He doesn’t do all the sweet talks, but I see him doing the things which he should be doing … I really feel-good inside and appreciate it. I like the consistency and that I don’t need to walk on eggshells…I am feeling as if it’s the right one this time”-

– and indeed, he is the right one and he is your husband: nothing better than a good man when it comes to a husband. I am so excited for you!

You asked in your recent post: “am I fool that I wanna help people financially??“- only if (1) your help is not really helping the people you want to help, and (2) giving to others is hurting you.

Now that you are a married woman, you and your husband (one financial unit, I hope) should work like a team, discussing and agreeing on how to responsibly spend your money, discussing other topics and agreeing on ways to make your marriage healthy and loving!

In regard to the pandemic and new variants: I am tired, pandemic fatigued. I got the Pfizer booster recently, following the first and second shots earlier this year. I hope that you and your husband are fully vaccinated as well, and so good to read from you!

anita