Dear Notebook6:

“This current guy friend has been an artist with lots of fans” – but he chose for so long, to spend time communicating so much with you, not with his many fans!

“By the way I finally able to go back hometown soon (2 weeks later) and will be staying there for one month. Will see how we progress from there” – this is huge news, you will be staying in your/his hometown, the same town, for a whole month, in March 2022???

“Sometimes I socialize with other tenant of the same household, but the interaction is minimal. Once every two months (in average) I meet up with friends too” – this is far from being enough socializing for you.

Thing is, Notebook6, you need to calm down your desperation for your friend: he is not that important in your life, not practically, so far. He is not as crucial to you as you imagine him to be… he is not that important!!! Lower your expectations of him and figure out ways to connect with other people.

anita