Dear anita,

It is definitely a possibility. I can’t be sure about his family situation but I have felt like I was too needy at times and I do regret it. I find myself often wondering if I played it more cool would we have lasted longer? I told this to him too but I really do appreciate his honesty. I have been in a situation before where for a very long time I was led on with no definitive response from the other side so my ex’ honesty has always been very appreciated in my heart. Even so to this day I do search for blame in myself and I too feel like I rushed into things very quickly as I really did have a strong emotional investment in him (maybe I even still do even though I try to deny it).

As I mentioned in my initial post I have come to terms that our relationship will not develop any further. He’s cut me out of his life and he’s happy with someone else and I’m happy he’s doing well. But I do often miss him and the way he made me feel.

Malakai