If one looks for faults in another then one may just find it? Addressing a Christmas card to the one person, who he has a personal connection, is not usually done to be rude but an oversight (unintentional) of others in the family. However, it is a choice one makes to take it as being rude or to let it go and move forward. What results from taking it as being rude? Anger? Distance between people (husband and friend)? What results from letting it go and moving forward? Sending a postcard to a friend? Not being upset over someone’s mistake? Question, does one spend any time with one’s husband when he zoom calls this friend? People forget … out sight, out of mind?? Send a postcard to his girlfriend and leave his name out of it. See how he reacts if one still has doubts?

Note: I do not say it is rude or it is not rude. Just that one has a choice in life to be happy or angry. I wish you happiness.

• This reply was modified 2 years, 10 months ago by Tommy.