Dear Lindsey:

In regard to your former younger man friend, well done on taking advantage of this boundary lesson. “Way easier said than done“, but you did it, good job!

In regard to Jason, I am disappointed that he asked for half because like you said, he invited you. Is it that he is struggling financially, to the best of your knowledge and did the two of you share expenses before? And did you have discussions before on your/ his financial situation?

anita