Dear Bee:

“Anita, Thank you for saying so and for your offer to help me. I don’t know how long it will take me to come to peace with my mistakes nor do I know if I can. I want to believe it can be eased over time though“-

-You are welcome, Bee. When in a relationship with another person and something feels wrong, or a lot feels wrong, and mistakes have been made, it’s important to be able to determine who made what mistake, and then each person needs to take responsibility for one own’s mistakes (not for the other’s) and learn to not repeat them.

I hope that your distress will ease and that you will come to peace with your mistakes sooner than later.

anita