Hi Anonymous

Perhaps there is another way to look at this?

I wonder, the emotions are not proportional to the situation. But are they proportional to how much you love and care for your partner?

You are hurt by this mistake because of your morals, because of your love. If you were a bad person who didn’t love their partner, you wouldn’t care.

So perhaps these feelings although uncomfortable, are a good thing? Try relaxing, allowing them to be and understand that they are borne of your love.