Anita,

I think you’re right that he lied to avoid conflict and confrontation with me. He sent me a rather cold email the other day which said he was sorry for hurting me but he did not admit what he had done. I think that’s probably all I am going to get from him. I have to see him next month at a work function as I mentioned above and I am very stressed about that at the moment.  I’m trying to take care of myself and am sad one moment, mad the next and really having a hard time accepting that it’s over and what he did.