Hi Tee,

Really good point. I need to keep focus on me then he has space to think if he wants to and or am able to give me what i am hoping he will.

My text last Monday was indeed defensive and I didn’t give me anything. Like with ultimatums never work either. He needs to be able to process it and see if he wants to go further.

I can take some comfort in that more than just i think of his behaviour as good signs, so i not crazy. And after seeing him at work everyday since friday I’m still the woman he gets a but awkward around. My male colleague who knows him and whom i told all about this said it’s all really good signs and said that he could relate to his behaviour in terms of his now girlfriend (a colleague of ours)