I really appreciate your input on this! I think you’re absolutely right. I have been looking for couples counseling for us. I just want answers and the truth. I think that is the closest way I’ll get that. I thought about him being bisexual and not telling the whole story as well.

He got DUIs in his past and has a suspended license. After December he can pay to have them given back. Your description was very detailed, and I understood everything. It was very accurate. This won’t be an overnight fix. It will take time, and might consist of B coming out of the closet. I’m not sure. I hope with everything that we are wrong, but it’s so much there I just don’t see that as being the outcome. Im preparing for the worst and hoping for the best. I really really appreciate being able to get this out and having someone understand both sides without judgement. Just that takes a lot off of me. I hadn’t been able to talk about it. I finally exploded and looked like the bad guy. I still got called crazy and was threatened to be left if I didn’t drop it. It’s a very tight rope. There’s also my vehicle at stake. When he wants to go somewhere and I don’t want to go I tell him no to taking my car. He gets mad and calls E to come get him and take him. Im now using your letters for their names. It is much easier. It’s all just out me in a very odd, unique, and uncomfortable position.