Dear Anonymouscat:

You ended your original post on Aug 30 with “I don’t know what to do” as well as your most recent post two months and 10 days later (Nov 9): “I don’t know what to do“. You’ve been virtually dating a young woman from another country (never having met her in person) for 2.5 years and you’ve been waiting for her to visit you, but she says that her parents will not approve of a relationship with you. As far as what you can do: (1) you can end the virtual relationship, and in the future, seek a real-life relationship with a local young woman, (2) you can perhaps travel to her country and visit her there, (3) you can wait and wait… for (what) to happen?

anita