hi anita,

it’s good to hear from you again! i’m doing and feeling much better. i no longer feel the constant guilt and anxiety. my relationship is also doing very well so overall i’m very happy! i have not spoken to my ex since the incident and he continues to be blocked on all platforms. i have no need or wish to speak to him. i’ve also limited my alcohol consumption and stopped drinking around other men without my partner present. these boundaries have helped keep myself in check and move on.

during some rare moments, i find myself thinking of the ache from time to time. it helps when i tell myself that if the roles were reversed, i would forgive my partner. it’s still a bit of a sore spot when i think of it but i think that this will pass over time. the further i get away from the incident, the better i feel.

how are you doing and how have you been? i’m afraid i don’t know what mistake or wrongdoing you are referring to but my original promise still stands. because you heard me when i needed someone and forgave me, you can confess your mistake to me. i’m here to listen and help in any way i can!