Hi Anita,

Thank you for your reply. I’m so sorry you’ve dealt with so much with your mom as well. How did you move forward? I’d so appreciate hearing how someone else dealt with the G, so well put!!

I’m not sure I understand your question? “Who is the Winner”? I don’t see anyone as a winner in my current situation. Am I just feeling sorry for myself, is that the underlying suggestion? I’m still ahead as the winner because I have my youth? I know the elders need my support. I am trying best I can. It’s just been years already and who knows how much longer. It’s just so hard to see my peers all living a very different existence, and as much as I try to stop comparing, it’s very hard. I didn’t mention before I have a lot of health problems, which maybe would be limiting my full potential of life anyway.

Thank you again for your reply.