Dear helcat,

What type of meditation do u use to quiet your thoughts?

Okay so let me try adding to the list, what makes me a good boyfriend:

You are thoughtful and plan ways to develop the relationship and maintain interest.

You communicate regularly with her.

You invite her to special occasions.

– I’ll try to communicate calmly with her when there’s a disagreements instead of getting mad

– She can share her struggles with me and i’ll try to understand

– I’ll make sure my family welcomes her, and wont mistreat her

– She doesnt have to be able to cook, because at my home we have a housemaid to do the cooking

– She can always join my family when we are going on holidays

– I’ll frequently visit her house and communicate with her family

– She can also frequently visit my house and eat together with my family

This is all i can think about right now, i‘m pretty sure i can add more to the list

Although i add the list above, i still feel like im boring, i never asked her out to do any activities because i have no hobby…. All i do was finish my task at my office everyday and went home watching tv before i sleep…. I need to change this but idk how, i feel like my routine is very boring… and i have very few friends to make it more fun…

And also do u think i need to have some goals? Because right now i dont have any goals?