Hi Eric

I’m sorry that this decision to share pictures has been painful for you. It doesn’t sound like people have been cruel which is good news. I understand that it is still very tough for you though and that the questions are painful too.

I think it was a very brave thing that you did. I’m glad that your girlfriend encouraged you to make the decision and didn’t pressure you. I’m glad that you made the decision out of good feelings but I can understand why you regret it.

I hope that in time these feelings will get easier. That no one will be cruel and then you can start to relax.

Do you feel like you are waiting for people to say something bad or judge you?

It doesn’t sound like she had a bad reaction to the bag. It is understandably shocking to receive such a wonderful gift. I don’t see that as a bad thing though. You have succeeded in a goal that is important in your culture. Showing that you can provide.