Hi TheltFactor,

You seem to be the one who is grounded and you know what you want. Good for you! You seem to be a resilient woman.

The way I see it, is that Compatibility without Commitment means having temporary mutual fun maybe even for a long, long time. It means enjoying those moments spent together. That’s all.

Commitment is the glue that holds two people together for the present and for the future. In good times and not so good times.

At one point, in any new relationship, it takes both parties to want to commit fully together, as a team if you wish.  Then to commit and work through the more sensitive issues that arise together.

This did not seem to be your story.

I wish you the very best moving forwards.