Dear Anita,

“No need to rush now. I think that what you need most at this time is to distract yourself from this question and to relax, best you can.”

I think you are right about this, I was starting to feel the toll again this morning.

“did you ever tell him that you were considering breaking up with him, and if you did, how did he respond?”

Back in February I admitted I was having relationship doubts. I think he just saw it as my own problem, said things like he understands me more than I think. I once said he might not be emotionally available enough for me and he said “I am more emotionally available than any of your past relationships” I thought that was weird, how would he know that, I haven’t told him those details of past relationships. And I don’t appreciate the manipulation tactic of, you can’t find better. Which I have felt from him before, and quite honestly felt from society, what people often say about the dating world.

“Here is an idea in regard not knowing with certainty what you need to know: can you put together 10 questions for him, hand him those questions asking him to answer them (typing his answers)?”

Yes I could do this, I will think more about it.

Thank you Anita,

Seaturtle ❤️