<p style=”text-align: left;”>Do I understand correctly? Would it be okay with resuming a relationship where you are being stonewalled for 2-3 days at a time?- In my opinion since I just want her, I would be okay with that. I can only hope she changes that.</p>
can you hold back all romantic and physical attraction to her and be there for her as a platonic friend in-practice, day in and day out over a potentially extended period of time?- if it means getting to check up on her and see her, I can control not showing it to her though I know deep in my heart that the reason I want to check up on her is because I love her but I can keep it platonic if that’s what it takes.
<p style=”text-align: left;”>Also no, this is the first time she got drunk, she never even expressed the desire to get drunk, and I don’t think that’s the issue, the issue is that she got drunk to cope with the loss and I am afraid if she gets into drugs for the same reason. I don’t think she’s suicidal but these things can harm her in other ways. Am I being too concerned here?</p>
I would be lying if I say that I want to stay connected for any selfless reason, ever since the breakup I am unable to sleep or do any tasks.

Thank you for the advice.