Dear Trixie:

“wow you all are so brave“- and so are you!

“my boyfriend for 2 years was arranged to his cousin…  I’m still with him since he asked me to stay with him until I get married“-you mean that he asked you to stay with him until he gets married (a typo)?

“I cant find ways to leave, he has been good with me in all aspects in life. and there will never be same guy like him the way he treats me. He takes care of me in everything“- is his intent to have no contact with you once he gets married and onward? Has he shown concern for how his marriage affects and will affect you?

“Should I leave now or I will wait for another man first to come and leave him?“- leave now is my advice. But it’d be difficult for you to do, wouldn’t it.. easier said than done?

anita