Dear Blazkowich:

“I’ll soon contact her (maybe for the last time) and give it another go but I’ll make it clear that I would want a healthy relationship where communication is the key. I know she’ll refuse but I’ll ask anyway so in future when I look back I can tell myself that I didn’t give up“- I wish you wouldn’t contact her, but it’s not my choice to make. If you contact her, let me know what happens, will you?

“I want to move on and detach myself from her… I can’t waste my time on a person who…  treats me like I am bothering them“- I am all for this part of your intent and plan!

“At the end of the day I am not some omnipotent being who’s showering someone with unconditional love and support, I have my own feelings too“- very intelligently articulated, a mature and wise attitude.

“The only thing which is making me not move-on are the plans we made, the promises, her smile and her voice“- emotional attachment to her, that is. Once you are finally determined to move on, this attachment will weaken.

anita