Hi YoungMufasa

Definitely, the respect and kindness that you show others shines though!

Well done on taking that step and putting yourself out there.

It might not seem like it, but that you already have a match is a good sign. These things are numbers games and whilst the odds for women getting a match is 10%, the match rate for men is 0.6%. 78% of users are men and 22% of users are women, so you see there aren’t enough women to match with everyone. If you got a match in under 100 attempts that means that you are doing really well. Statistically, much better than average. Try not to blame yourself during this process and give it some more time.

I can understand that, I’m not attracted to that many people either. These things do limit your options though, so expect dating to take some time. I’m curious about what kinds of things you want and don’t want in a partner?

I think it would have been a surprise to you hearing someone in the background, especially considering the light flirting. But sometimes light flirting is just people being friendly and a good teacher will build up your confidence and make you feel comfortable. There are rules when teaching even for adults, the teacher is not supposed to date a student or even maintain a friendship with them. The relationship is supposed to be strictly teacher and student.

Love and best wishes! ❤️🙏