You mean that by not discouraging her efforts to pursue you, you cheated on your boyfriend? But you weren’t aware, or adequately aware,at the time that she was pursuing you for some kind of a romantic/ sexual relationship.. ?

When she sent me photos to show me “how she dressed up before the meeting” I said it was okay, or something. And I think we all know how it works when someone’s response is “passive”. It encourages even more. It was stupid and naive of me to think this was innocent. Maybe was a little bit but also wasn’t. She was clearly playing some game and I was thinking, since she was straight, it’s safe to have those silly talks and to respond to her texts at night etc. i feel awful.

Anyway I will think twice next time.