I have never answered anyone like this before but I just came upon this sight a few minutes ago and already signed up with only reading a portion AND your post. I dont have the answer but we have a lot in common and feel we’re on the right page to get some answers. I think hobbies are good for us but when we use them for the purpose of just a distraction it is a temporary fill to a void. I dont think there is that “one thing” we are missing. I have been real busy with trying to learn new things such as windows office since I am looking for a new career and would like to be up to date with these skills. So with that I have been too busy to worry so much about what I should or could be doing. I am also learning to set and keep boundaries with those friends that always seem to be needy or negative. Being honest with yourself and focusing on any small goal brings self satisfaction which changes the way you feel and your outlook automatically becomes positive. I had a business for 17 years and recently sold it. My thought right now is Im wanting something more challenging with benefits and retirement-( but struggling with the idea of working for someone else). Regardless my resume doesnt seem to qualify me for whats out there unless I educate myself. So, as I said Im working on that and applying for jobs anyway.

Anything that you find “to get you moving again” has to come with challenges and self pride so that it sticks- otherwise its another high. If you love your job and want to persue it- you may have to work on marketing. A fresh start! A catchy new logo with bright shirts or hiring a positive person with fresh ideas. Mostly people want good service and know they arent getting taken. Once they trust you- Im sure you’ll be filled with referrals. If they see you’re a happy and genuine person they will help you succeed.

I didnt mean to pry or assume anything. I can relate and I feel its easier than we think to get motivated again. We just need positive influences around us. And remind yourself of all the things you have already accomplished. We tend to forget that part. Thanks for allowing me to share.

Angel