Hi There,

I’m sorry he’s “bad in bed” in that way. Kama Sutra book? Tantic Sex? That could dove tail into his role playing to then become a Real Thing. Pick up some books and tell me if that makes sense.

Alcohol ~ My DH used to date a functioning alcoholic, and because of the drinks, they couldn’t get it to the next level. Or any level. Platonic friends who would be guests at weddings. Finally his minister told him something very wise, “Sometimes people need Little Hurts.” He broke up with her, and that, believe it or not, was the catalyst for her to become sober ~ for life ~ with or without him.