Hi Neko,

I’ve done workaholic things at times in my past. When I was into it, I did not have perspective about balance. Now, when feeling pressure to work extra, I stick with going to the gym…admitedly becoming a cross addition though.

I understand your concern for him. As Jasmine wrote, you cannot be responsible for someone’s behaviors. You can express your interests to find common interests and the way you spend time. Most of all be sure to take care if yourself first.

One learning which is a positive for your future – is to go ahead and have the uncomfortable conversation in a situation that is not working, it’s better than avoidance and can be good for everyone involved.

Big blue

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