OMG.

In the beginning every woman says to herself, “Married men are off limits.”

Then as we get older it’s “Every man, married or going through a separation/divorce is off limits.”

Now I’m thinking, “Every man, married, separated, or divorced with kids under 18 are off limits.”

There is way, way too much drama. The wife! The faux separation!! The kids!!!

Then the man (and the wife and all her friends) makes you, yes, YOU, into this conniving, seducing, siren who dabbles in witchcraft. Who is obsessed. Who is jealous of the children. Who is desperately jealous of the wife.

Leave a *Message* on the home phone and say “I can’t believe you lied to everyone. Don’t you *EVER* call me again!” (He did call you!) This way YOU are putting HIM in his place and ending it on YOUR terms. Then block his number(s). Bury it. If people bring it up, say that he said the divorce was almost over and you believed him.

LIFE LESSON LEARNED.

Then forgive yourself and hold your head up.