@Blaice Well I am 29 (f) and he is 34 (m)…although sometimes it feels the other way around based on how we are conducting our lives at present. :-/ Thanks for your feedback/response. Some food for thought, for sure. Worth mentioning that since he saw me at our baby scan yesterday, I have had a few tentative messages which eventually transformed into a semi-attempt to apologise. Still blaming me as he ‘reacted badly’ (therefor it’s my fault – although the issue for me is that there was nothing to react to. He thinks he reacted badly to me being distant, forgetting that the reason I was distant was because he lashed out swearing at me and telling me to fuck off….)

So I will wait a bit longer before I respond. He wants to meet but I have requested space to try and minimise any more draining stress for this growing baby and me. My energy is gone.

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