Oh I know it! That’s why I put “Crazy” in quotes! When we call women “crazy” we automatically discount them. I am letting it go, but I admit I am still on guard for impending drama. I wrote because mentally I can let it go/not think about it, but emotionally I felt a whirling pit of anxiety in my gut. I should have just written, “Have swirling pit of anxiety in my gut. How to handle” instead of mentally rehashing it.
Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine. 