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July 22, 2014 at 5:33 am
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AnonymousParticipant
For me I MUST forgive or I will have a resentment. A resentment is like taking poison and hoping the other person dies. To forgive I first must see my side in it, and I always have a side. It can be something as simple as not being there for someone when they needed me. I did not mean to hurt the other person, but I triggered some fear in them and they reacted the way I would have if I were in their place.
Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine. 