Thanks all.
So I communicated with her since my post. I asked about dinner, she said how about lunch?. I gave a time and said I would pick her up and then said she would just meet me.

I am anxious, nervous and do not know what to expect. We went from 100 mph to about 10 mph, in communication. She has been taking time to her self and her kids. I told her I missed our chats like we had and she said “she is just taking her mental break too” I do not have my kids as much and do not have much else to do in my spare time. So I am a little lost in trying to find myself again. I have been trying to find him, because she told me that she wanted that guy back again.

I am trying to work on myself on guidance to get that person back