Big Blue, you are simply not reading the situation right. She didn’t quit because I had a thing for her. She quit because SHE had a thing for ME. I only started getting a “thing for her” after she had already quit. Considering loving two women at the same time and in the course of it perhaps also promoting friendship between them came naturally to me. I don’t have to defend my thoughts, do I? I thought the point of this sort of forum is to look at what is, and then deal with it constructively instead of judging. Judging doesn’t help me, you know? The women and the man involved in this scenario are also extremely unlikely to descend to the lows of seeking revenge in court. Revenge for what anyways? Nobody has been violated. All three, as far as I can see, are doing their best to deal with the situation with sincerity, openness and caring for the others. And finally, I thankfully live outside the US with its absurd workplace and divorce laws so the possibility of emails between me and Liz being used in court to my detriment is zero.