Hello Alpal,

Congratulations on your marriage to the person you love!

I don’t think it’s a good idea to make assumptions about other people’s motives. Better to just ask directly “Why aren’t we friends anymore?” That might be a good start for repairing the relationship if you genuinely want that. The question is though, do you want her attention and help during the wedding, or do you want her friendship, regardless of whether she’s able to be there for you or not?