Lori,

You deserve to be sure. Consider that even if he is afflicted with maddona-whore syndrome, it doesn’t mean he gets to do whatever he wants. Much like a person with IBS doesn’t just get to drop a deuce on the dinner table because “I’m just this way.” Consider asking to sit in on one of his therapy sessions for his affliction, so you get a chance to lay out your feelings with an impartial and trained person. No therapist? No psychiatrist? Chances are he is lying, excusing, and actually has “string-along-atosis” or “wanna-bang-alotta”.

If I tried that on my wife, I’d be typing this message with an ice pack on my balls, unless she ripped them clean off. Ya know? If you do decide to stick it out with him, make sure you make him earn your trust, or he’ll never respect you. Why would he? “Sorry dearest, I need to go get some strange. Afflictions are tough, ya know.” You kidding? What are you doing with all your anger, Lori? Eating it? Turning it into “what am I doing wrong?”

Also, if his affliction is real, I’m pretty sure he’d be unable to get an erection while he’s with you. Is that the case?

With warmth,
Matt